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http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/british-columbia/dont-be-that-guy-ad-campaign-cuts-vancouver-sex-assaults-by-10-per-cent-in-2011/article2310422/

and another

http://feministing.com/2012/01/12/new-men-can-stop-rape-ads-rock/

http://www.xojane.com/relationships/rape-campaign-finally-admits-men-have-something-do-it?utm_medium=twitter#.TwYLcAMz2Jw.twitter Some cool posters by men for men. Great stuff!

direct link referenced in above article:

http://mystrength.org/5.0.html

and in the same vein as your post, over at Shakesville:

http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2011/03/feminism-101-helpful-hints-for-dudes_10.html

Thank you for bringing this issue to light because one of the first things that happens to a rape victim is that others re-victimize her by pointing out all the "you should have done x" ideas they can think of. It is a way for other women to convince themselves that they can be safe, and a way for some guys to make it ok with themselves that some men do this. Make it all her fault and everybody--but of course the victim--walks away feeling like their world is safe and manageable.

We (as a society) do the same thing with serious illness. If we can figure out what the sick person did/ate/thought/felt that brought the illness on themselves we are safe--or so we'd like to think. [I'm not kidding about the thought/felt part--some people actually have blamed people with cancer for having repressed emotions that somehow created their cancer.]

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